Side Effects

The dictionary defines Side Effect as something which occurs in addition to an intended effect.  The term is mostly applicable to medicines…which is exactly why it came to the forefront of my frivolous thoughts today.

In conjunction with a recent visit to my doctor, I decided to get a renewal on a prescription I had not needed for over a year.  To get the right script, I retrieved the “Pharmacy Prescription Info Sheet”.  True to my nature, I perused the entire text of that document.

It’s a med formulated to “reduce itching, redness and swelling associated with many skin conditions”.  Perfect, that’s the one I need.  Further down the page it revealed possible side effects.  “When applied to the skin (as if anyone would think to squeeze some on a toothbrush) it may cause hives.”

Now, my farm-acology (not to be confused with a phonetically similar word) says the physiological interaction of hives and skin is itching.  Hold on there, Bubba.   I want the prescription ’cause my skin itches, not to cause it to itch.

Oh, but wait…just to clarify hives pharmacologically, it went on: “may cause burning, itching and redness”.  No, I’m not making that up.  The same cream that I wipe on a skin rash may cause a bigger rash…not to mention “difficulty breathing, swelling of the mouth, face, lips or tongue.”

Well, there you have it.  No more itching on my arm, but my tongue swells up enough to choke me.  They really didn’t need to tell me to seek immediate medical attention if that occurred.

It seems that every medication now comes with disclaimers of detrimental side effects.  I’m quite certain most of you have heard about the classic “…lasting more than 4 hours…” side effect.  But, I think I’ll not go there.

I’m not sure why side-effect disclaimers need to be the propriety of medications.  Considering the recent barrage of political TV ads, I kept waiting for small print at the bottom to declare: “May cause headache, nausea and vomiting”, which, ironically, seems to be just about the most common side effect of prescription drugs.

Many meds warn: “May cause drowsiness”.  I once got a script to help me overcome insomnia.  It had the warning: “Do not operate machinery or drive as it may cause drowsiness”.  Darn…you mean mowing the lawn is no longer an option when I can’t sleep?

And why are all side effects negative?  Just once I’d like to read a disclaimer that’s favorable.  Wouldn’t it be great if Lopressor® reduced stomach acid build up in conjunction with its expressed purpose of reducing blood pressure?  Oh, no, no, no…its side effects include both diarrhea AND constipation.  That’s kinda like a weather report of possible intermittent showers.

I take an anti-cholesterol pill every night.  It would be nice if it had a positive side effect of drowsiness.  Even better — the ultimate complementary side effect might be: “Taking this medication may cause euphoria”.  Now there’s a side effect I’d like to see on all my Prescription Info Sheets.

Oh, oh, but wait…Would the delightful side effect of euphoria become adverse if it lasts more than 4 hours?

Some Bits of Humor

Sue’s uncle is a Master Carpenter.  He built his home which included a workshop instead of a second car garage.  Because he recently changed residences, the house would be sold. Sue’s cousin made arrangements for distribution of all of Uncle Floyd’s carpentry items.  Though I dabble at projects involving wood and tools, I think I am closer to being a Master Scrounge than even an “Apprentice” in the carpentry trade.  Therefore, I was granted the pleasures associated with cleaning out Uncle Floyds workshop after all of the major items were gifted.

I was thrilled at this opportunity.  I don’t really have space for large tools, yet always manage to find room for a few more screws.  Despite all the major tools being claimed, I brought home two van-loads of “stuff”.  Today’s Friday Frivolity is my ‘Thank You’ letter to Sue’s cousin.

Sue and I expedited emptying your dad’s workshop by simply boxing up everything that wasn’t breathing.  As we agreed, I was to “clear out” the workshop, keep what I wanted and rummage the remainder.  We didn’t bother with sorting as we packed up.  I would do the sorting on rainy days at our house.  It has rained a lot, so I’ve had many hours to review your dad’s “Home Depot” stockpile

For the moment, set aside your previous assessment that I should be living under the watchful care of shrinks at an Acuity Deficient Residence.  Even Certifiable individuals, who tend to often be on the verge of euphoric orgasm, are capable of “reasonable and explainable” joy.

I had no idea how much I am like your father, or visa-versa.  I sorted out enough hack saw blades to last most DIY guys half a dozen years.  I looked up onto my pegboard to see if I might need any from Uncle Floyd’s inventory.  Hmmm, I had 4…Floyd had 8.  I figured  Floyd’s wisdom is superior to mine, so now I have 8 and still there are 4 to sell at rummage.  Thank You very much.

When I finished with saws and blades, I dumped all the drill bits I found scattered throughout Uncle Floyd’s drawers, cupboard shelves, shoe boxes and old Marshmallow Creme jars onto my bench.  Wow, your mom sure used a lot of Marshmallow Creme.  I must have found at least 50 full of sundry woodworking needs.

Hand “brace” bits—both auger and center bit—are easy to spot, so I sorted those out first. High speed, power drills have just about the “Brace and bit” drills obsolete. But, I still have my grandpa’s hand-powered brace, so a big THANY YOU for some old (1950s) super strong, super long, deep drilling, big hole bits for that brace.  Of course, looking at the longest bit of this type does beg the question of when I might ever be tempted to auger a half-inch diameter hole through a 16-inch thick block of wood…using a hand-cranked brace.

Nevertheless, as a collector of anything potentially useful (as well as stuff with no foreseeable use), I am truly grateful.

Masonry bits are also quickly identifiable so corralling them was my next task.  Measuring their sizes and “branding” each one as I put them in a clean plastic “pen” was going very smoothly.  Smoothly at least UNTIL I picked up a bright chromium, unused, still in its original packaging, life-time guaranteed, Craftsman, tungsten carbide tipped, bit.

So…I’m glad you asked…why would a drill bit in store-bought condition surprise me?  Because it was the fourth 1/4 inch size that I’d found. Yes, it’s true.  Concrete bits do wear out, so having a back up is a rather common practice.  But, why would Floyd have purchased (but not used) a new 1/4” bit when he had 2 other quarter inchers that were in excellent condition. Not to mention hang on to the 4th masonry bit that didn’t have a carbide tip.  Actually, disregarding the importance of carbide tip, it does seem a bit unreasonable to save any broken tool that had obviously bit off more than it could chew its way through.

Alas.  Quarter inch is a common size.  Turns out I had 3 of that size just as Uncle Floyd did.  Yah, like I said.  Floyd and I have very similar thought processes.  Thanks for the shiny new masonry bit.  I know I’ll find something to mount on my workshop cinder block wall.  Hmm, maybe a shelving unit for Marshmallow jars.

Now, with the masonry bits put away, the thirty-pound pile of fluted steel on my work bench only had bits for glass, metal drilling, hole saws—which do not work with a saw, …spade bits—which I suppose could work in the garden, …and even a few spoon bits—which only look like a spoon but couldn’t hold broth let alone a noodle.

I mentioned my collector mentality, didn’t I?  Imagine the excitement of a philatelist finding a stamp he doesn’t have in his collection.  In my sizable accumulation of high-speed ‘twist’ bits, I had never come across a 29/32nd bit.  My heart sped up and I stopped breathing to reread the size stamped on the bright steel bit.  Yup…29/32.

There’s a reason this bit is in pristine condition.  I’d bet it’s never been used.  Who would ever need that sized hole? They don’t make dowels that size. Even if they did, I’d use a 7/8 bit and a big hammer. I mean…how much resistance can a 32nd of an inch of wood put up against me and a ten pound sledge. (Thanks for that hammer, also)

However, most of all, Thanks for the peace of mind that I will no longer worry about not having the right sized twist bit for any job.  Adding in Floyd’s bits now completes my collection—1/16th through 1/2 inch at 32nd inch increments.  I just sat there, mesmerized by that  splendid array of steel.  And not just a complete set.  I now have a back-up …or 3… of each size.  Except the 29/32 bit of course.

I’m done for today. I’ve still got good sized pile (even though I’ve never really understood “good sized” quantitatively) of miscellaneous drill bits to sort through — not to mention the huge assortment of files, hand tools, screws, nails, nuts and bolts still awaiting my attention.  Oh, and paint too.  But paint is a whole different story. Another day maybe….

Friday Frivolity: What’s in the fridge?

How many times do you open the fridge to “see what’s there” but nothing appeals to you.  No, I am not referring to Twilight Zone sounds or voices that nobody else hears.  Those are both issues which should be addressed by a shrink.

I’m thinking about those moments when you don’t really have a specific purpose for opening the refrigerator door. You know…snack attack.  An squad of combatants scaling the walls of your stomach. The enemy is boredom. Your idle moments inspire a reconnaissance mission to the fridge.

Of course, you don’t have a known target when you open the door.  The territory inside the fridge is ever-changing.  Restaurant leftovers hide in ambush beneath Styrofoam lids.  Cold air tumbles out as you reconnoiter each shelf, pushing aside Tupperware of last night’s surplus of tuna casserole.  Though the compressor is screaming close the door, you continue your search for a snack, not re-heat dinner. Nothing on the shelves.

Why is there a veggie drawer.  What are they hiding from.  Tomatoes, otherwise known as love apples, no doubt have their own reason to stay out of public view. But wait, there are Northern Spies in there—close the drawer.

Besides, we don’t put veggies in the veggie drawer.  It’s cheese in ours and shredded cheese will not satisfy a hunger pang.  Ah, hah…there’s another drawer at the bottom.  Don’t bother to open that drawer.  Nothing but onion flavored potatoes there.

You close the door.

Now comes my follow-up question.  Do you actually let go of the handle before you reopen the door?  Certainly you’ve overlooked a tasty tid-bit in your first search.  This time you look in the door shelves.  Foolhardy thought.  Condiments are categorically not snacks in themselves.  The desire is for quick satisfaction not a bologna sandwich.

I don’t know about you, but my hunger pangs are not satisfied by crunching on carrots.  If you do go straight to the veggie drawer, be sure to knock before you pull it open.

Friday Frivolity: un-canned SPAM

I received a SPAM e-mail the other day.  Even though such mail irritates many people, there’s not much that can be done.  Yeah, most e-mail providers have junk mail detectors, but every day phishers and scammers are finding ways to sneak around the filters.  The law isn’t much help either.  The CAN SPAM Act of 2003 makes the practice legal.  No, I’m not making that up and the Act is not relevant to legalizing the canning of a meat product.

I’ll admit that I don’t peruse e-mail that gets routed to my Junk mail box.  But memos in my Inbox at least get a quick look as long as they have a Subject.  The Subject of the particular memo I mentioned above was “USPS Delivery Failure Notice”.  Considering the volume of packages we ship and receive, I considered it plausible.

Considering the severely limited volume of my instinctive brain cells, it is equally plausible that I glanced at the content of that memo.

It was actually quite well contrived.  The USPS logo was certainly authentic appearing.  Yet, the very sight of “USPS” in the header of an e-mail did seem inappropriate, if not counterproductive.   Regardless of deficiencies in my intuition, skepticism is my insurance policy.  Regardless of the potential for one of our packages being stranded somewhere, such a Failure Notice would be in my roadside mailbox, not delivered through cyberspace.  I quickly resolved that I would not click on anything but my tongue…and to report it as SPAM.

But before I deleted it, I did read on.  The first sentence also provided conclusive doubt to the legitimacy of the notice.  It stated they “…couldn’t deliver to you address.”   I didn’t click the link to discover what they’er…I mean, their reason for the failure to deliver.  I was quite certain it would be equally ungrammatical if not totally illogical.

Yet, the longer I stared at the memo, the more my mind attempted to construct what might have been behind the link.  My imagination conjured up………

You’re package is being held do to wrong address information.  The contense of the package only reviled your e-mail address.  Please send additional $25 for extra handlings and good address.  Credit Cards accepted.

No, no, that’s not it.  This is much more enticing……  Were working for Ed McMahon.  He is supposed to deliver a Million-Dollars to you, but Publishers Cleaning House had the wrong address.  It is too risqué to try to deliver it again.  Please give us you bank account number and we will deposit the money.  

Okay, that’s enough fun for now.  I sure don’t want you to think this is SPAM.

Friday Frivolity: Soup for Lunch

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Once, shortly after we were married, Sue was ill.  Earnestly desiring to impress her with my care giving, I wandered into the kitchen to fix her lunch.

I say “wandered” as the kitchen is a strange land for me to visit without a guide.  In my basement workroom, I can locate hand tools with my eyes shut, find the appropriate fastener with the proficiency of a voice-activated robot, and know where every power tool is stored.  That is my homeland.

The kitchen is across the border.  Regardless that the instructional words on cans, boxes and documents in the kitchen appear to be in English, I am unable to properly translate the subtle variances of stir, mix, blend and fold.  Oh, but I’ve got “beat” quite clear in my mind.  Yeaaah…the difference between beat and whoop are visually acute in my masculine mind.  However, to my mind, the kitchen instruction to “beat” is in an ambiguous category with whip, puree and whisk.  (Though at one time, I thought whisking was what my mom did to me, with a broom, when she wanted me out of her kitchen.)

Considering that Sue—border guard, guide and translator, was languishing in bed, I needed to fix something I was familiar with.  Soup and fruit seemed like a good choice.  Fruit was quite easy.  Get out the trusty “never-needs-sharpening-slice-everything-effortlessly” knife and whack away.  Wow, it really looked easy on TV.

After I put on a band-aid and tossed out the red-blotched banana pieces, I took a much slower approach to the apple.  Even if not picture-perfect slicing and dicing, fruit-cutting was completed without further mishap.

Soup is not particularly challenging to me.  The Campbell kids often join me for lunch.  They are advocates of my open, heat, and eat protocol.

I was one proud guy to escape the kitchen without a fire or bloody stub—the cut should heal sooner than the burn.  Do you know how fast water boils in a dish rag mopping up a little spill on a glass-top burner?

My task of fixing lunch for my ailing wife was complete.  I even made a delectable-looking arrangement on the tray with the fruit, crackers, and some cheese.  Then, with the decorum of Jeeves, and a chest rivaling a ruffed grouse, I strutted into the bedroom with her lunch.

She was so grateful.

Initially, anyway.

Upon sampling the tomato soup she inquired as to what I had used to dilute it.

I proudly responded, “Dilute it?  Oh, no,  dear, I didn’t water it down.”

“Then how much milk did you use?”

“Ahhhh, milk?  I didn’t use milk, either.  I didn’t want to weaken the soup, hon.  You need all the nutrients you can get from each spoonful.”

She quickly rose up in bed.  I was quite amazed that only one spoonful of soup would result in such expedience in her recovery.

“What part of concentrate don’t you understand?”

“Concentrate?  On what?” I meekly offered as the air noticeably hissed from my deflating chest.

“Concentrate on what it says on the label.  Dilute with one can of milk.”

Well, that was it.  No more kitchen privileges for me.  At least not unsupervised.

Sue’s in control of the kitchen.  I cook outside.  Fewer dials, settings, and no recipes to follow.  Toss it on, keep the flash fires under control, and pull it off while the meat’s still limber enough to chew.  That’s about all the cookin’ I can be trusted with.

Friday Frivolity: Snow Blitzness

Polar Vortex.  Who came up with the idea of renaming “Cold as a witches…”?  Really?  Vortex? Isn’t that what forms in the toilet drain.  Okay, so maybe in the sink.  But who thinks of vortex as a descriptive of cold—not to mention that we are nowhere near either pole.

Why do we have to give cold weather a new name?  What temperature warrants cold front?  Progressing then to wind-chill,  eventually upgraded …or downgraded as the case must be…to Polar Vortex.  But, hold on!  Weather broadcasters are meeting as I write.  They might just be considering of a new classification.  At some point the vortex must most surely become a Polarnado?

Foolishness if you ask me.  And even if you didn’t ask me—why is it necessary to re-categorize “Baby, it’s cold outside”.  Oh, wait.  Now I know.  There’s been recent revelations of risqué thoughts in that phrase.

Regardless of classification, the temps and snow of this past week were not the coldest weather or the biggest snow storm I have experienced. I remember ice skating in the street as an adolescent and shoveling through snow drifts that were taller than I was in high school.  Okay, so the shovel was taller than I was back then.

And speaking of shoveling snow.  I don’t have to shovel now.  I own a snow blower.  Unfortunately, my mighty blower does not have sufficient thrust to overcome nor-easters if I push it southwest.  One pass in the wrong direction down my drive reminded me of some rules of snow-engagement — as well as a time a few years ago when I shoveled my drive.  Here’s the tale from 2014 that came to mind.

Lesson number one: Do not pitch fluffy snow into gusty wind.  Even worse, do not spit into gusty -20 wind chill.  Crystallized spittle at 30 knots will sting.  Yeah, I know, don’t spit into the wind is as axiomatic as don’t squat with your spurs on.  My only excuse is retarded brain waves at 10 below.

Immediately following the above lesson came number 2.  Go into the garage to wipe ice shards from your face.  The handkerchief may have retained moisture from previous use and said moisture may have retained heat while in the pocket next to your leg.  Did I mention 25 mph wind at 10 below?  That’s somewhat comparable to a liquid nitrogen blast.  I didn’t think cloth could freeze quite so quickly.

These were experiences during my  6th pass of clearing the driveway of one foot of snowfall.  Considering that wind-driven snow seeks refuge at the lee side of my garage (also known as vehicle entrances) clearing that portion of the drive resulted in a 7-foot pile.  I was quite proud of that accumulation from my labors.  There were just a few more shovel-fulls to top it off…which segues to my last lesson.

From the lee side of a 7-foot pile, do not attempt to toss snow over it.   It is virtually impossible to predict the swirling pattern on the windward side until the snow leaves the shovel.  The odds are not in your favor that the discharge will be vacuumed away from you.  Au contraire.  The physics of why snow swirls behind a van will become very apparent.

One final suggestion.  Feed the birds before shoveling snow.  If they opt to stay huddled and puffed up in the trees, rather than dining at the feeder, do not go outside to shovel snow.

Friday Frivolity: Caution…may be silly

Recently we put away our Christmas decorations.  It was not the first time I noticed a particular tag, but the “Caution…” did remind me of several similarly head-scratching notices.  This tag on a string of Christmas lights reminded me that they are  For indoor or outdoor use ONLY

Really?  Where else might I be tempted to put them…in my stomach?

Usually such warnings are the result of the company being sued.  In the case of my string of lights, I can only imagine the plaintiff being a druggie putting them in an orifice to warm up his cold fanny. 

I know my lawn mower warns that human toes are comparable to dandelion stalks as far as the whirring blade is concerned. I suppose that notification is for any person who is lack-toes intolerant.

 And speaking of intolerance, food products have the most prevalent, questionably relevant, warnings.  Made with artificial and natural flavors is a common disclaimer that boggles my palate. Does this mean my tongue might actually taste the devil in his namesake cake?  If that’s possible, then is Satan, or Ghouls and Goblins may be involved in transporting water that is Untouched by human hands?  Oh, and just in case you were not aware, cans of BumbleBee Albacore alert you: CONTAINS: TUNA.  …as opposed to fat fuzzy insects?

 Medical warnings so often boggle my mind that I rarely pay much attention to them. That was unfortunate for me recently.  Before going to bed I popped a handful of my nighttime medications, plus one new one.  I did so without reading the cautions which undoubtedly were on the pharmacy’s prescription documents. 

 When I began dressing in the morning, I actually put my underwear on backwards—which incidentally comes in a zip-lock storage bag.  Why?  Trust me, there are no “transferable” odors in the drawer that might contaminate my drawers.  Anyway, said zip-lock baggie had no warning label to the possibility of me dressing backwards. Coincident with my brief disorientation, I did experience some longer lasting difficulties with orientation.  Come to find out, my sleeping pill  may cause drowsiness. 

Though I am mocking some of the foolishness behind such warnings, I do know there are some labels that probably have a “reasonable” basis.  However, legalities aside, I can only wonder how the “Law”is ever going to know that my wife removes the tags which red-letter admonish—Do not remove…penalty of Law.  She rips them off before I can read why it’s the law to leave them on our pillows.

WAIT, here’s one last warning tag line.  If you tattle on her, the bird of paradise… 

Friday Frivolity: Significant Impact

There are times when brothers question each other about remembering times from long ago.  It is often quite amusing how each of my brothers often have varying opinions about details of things that happened in our MUCH younger years.

Recently, my youngest sibling asked questions regarding things which happened during the late 1950’s.  Neither of his older brother’s had clear memories from that era, especially with regard to who slept in what bed—3 boys, one bedroom.  Middle-brother, known as ‘bama Bob, admits his memory of the 50’s is poor.  That’s excusable because he was quite young at that time.  My memory of the 50’s is excusable because I’m quite old, now.

However foggy some memories are, it is true there are some specific events of that era which are clear in my mind…mostly because of the significant impact on my life.  Allow me to share two of such significant events.

I recall pounding in a tent-peg at Boy Scout Jamboree, waaaay back when.  The significant impact of that occurrence was not camping at the historic Valley Forge.  Rather, it was when the blade of the peg-pounding hatched and impacted my knee.

I’m not going to brag about my Scout First-aid training kicking quickly into gear.  Rather than instant recall of quick-response training, it was pain and gushing blood that initiated hands on the  pressure point of the wound, screams of 911 (albeit before 911) and “stop-drop-and-roll.”

Wait! That’s what you do if you’re on fire, not bleeding from a gash in the knee.  But, roll is exactly what I remember doing.

That’s the first time I remember riding in an ambulance…that is, if you can call a WWII Jeep and stretcher an ambulance.  No siren, just me screaming.  I was too young to contemplate being macho and morphine was not an option at a Boy Scout camp.  Okay, so a siren was not necessary.  It was not a life threatening situation and siren-clearing speed was not needed.

Fact is, speeding across a campground in a jeep would only have only added to the discomfort. As it was, I did get a sense of what it might have been like for General Washington’s chuck-wagon cook delivering dinner to the troops.  It sure felt like we drove the full length of Valley Forge to get to the MASH tent.  A few stitches, more gauze and bandage than a total knee replacement would get today, and my Jamboree was over.

Also in the 50s, the second “significant impact” on my life was my chest against tree roots at Moore’s Park.  For those unfamiliar with the Lansing area, Moore’s Park was the sight of a very popular public swimming pool and adjacent picnic grounds along the Grand River.  It was also close enough to my home to ride my bike there.

My best friend at that time bet me a dream-scicle I wouldn’t dare ride my bike down a steep hill next to the pool.  It was his second bet with me that very afternoon.  Hey, I had not drowned following a plunge off the 10 meter platform on an earlier bet, so I figured my luck would hold out.  Enticing me to race down the hill was kinda double-or-nothing for him.  For me…I thought it was a sure bet of refreshment. Off I went.

Do you know the rate of deceleration of a bicycle wheel in a sand trap?  Don’t bother with the formula.  The short answer is—sudden.  Suddenly, my handlebars blurred below my chin and I launched like superman without a cape.  But, I was not airborne for long.  The formula for rate-of-decent isn’t necessary.  Impact with the root strewn hill was quite soon.  Momentum lasted much longer.  Long is also descriptive of the skid marks on my bare chest.

I don’t remember actually “bleeding”, but the etchings of the roots, rocks, and rough ground were certainly crimson over 100% of my chest.  It was a small chest.  Okay, so maybe it was just 50%.  But some of the scrapes did extent to my abdomen and thighs if that helps to prove this event had a significant impact.

Friday Frivolity: Boy to Man

I recently attained the age of 75.  I say attained because turning implies some semblance of control.  Not that I have totally lost control of the muscles required for turning, yet there is most certainly a reason I no longer attempt skate-boarding.

Some might say I have reached 75.  Considering the inference that reaching includes mentally grasping , my ability to grasp anything as fleeting as age,…well…let’s just say I celebrated my seventy-fifth completed year of life.

Often during such annual celebrations, I am asked to recall memorable moments from years gone by.  Not so this year.  No one actually asked me to reminisce about my maturating process over the past 75 years.  Most likely because no one actually considers that I have done all that much maturing.  As a boy, I couldn’t wait to “grow up.”  My dad had that same sentiment, but I think he had a totally different context to his all too frequent question; “Son, will you ever grow up?”

I have a very sneaky alter ego which often lures me to severe regressions in age.  Boys desire to become men.  Men realize there is always a boy tempting them to think and act much younger.  At 75, thinking young is diametrically opposed to attempting to accomplish youthful acts.  It’s not just my alter ego which is frequently bruised.

With regard to bruising, I believe the major difference between boys and men is that boys consider such skin discoloration as some sort of machismo validation.  Men, on the other hand, are only embarrassed to tell how they unwittingly collided with some solid object.  For me, that object is often the earth while playing a boys game.  At 65 I began stumbling over first base.  At 70 my feet could not keep up with my nose about half way to first base.  If I was still playing, I’d bet I’d never get out of the batters box.

Another aspect of the variance between boys and men is sex.  Research suggests that boys reach their peak of sexual interest between 10 and 20—men hit their peak about 10:20 in the evening.  As a boy, I never contemplated my parents in a sexual situation.  However, I suspect my parents did wonder if they should have contemplated that aspect of life more thoroughly before one particular sexual situation.  Don’t misunderstand me.  I never heard either of my parents disparage my birth.  Of course, they did often mitigate my actions with consideration that I was in fact born on Halloween.

One last thought that passed through my mind during the day of my birth celebration:  I distinctly remember wearing “hand-me-down” clothing from my cousin.  Frankie lived in Texas. As far as clothing styles go, Texans were far ahead of Michiganders.  Frankie’s growth spurts were ahead of mine so his outgrown clothing became my avant-garde supply chain.

Oh, boy, when he sent me khakis with a buckle in the back, I was instantly in the totally hip group. Unfortunately, regardless of what pants I wore, being a nerdy pip-squeak soon exiled me from hip-cat clique.  Ah, but I did get to wear clothing that fit my desired personality.

Contrary to my youthful desires to wear clothing that fit my personality, as a man I just hope the clothes in my closet today will fit next year.  No longer do I have pants with a stylish buckle in the back.  Lately, about the only belt I can still buckle is in the car.  I don’t know what brand of soap Sue uses, but my pants are tightening up faster than shrink-wrap in the desert.

Aging from boy to man is a gradual process and one which often provides benchmarks to revisit,

Friday Frivolity: Detection versus Intimidation

Driving throughout our wonderful country, I often notice great variances of how jurisdictions differ in enforcing the speed limit laws.  In particular, how speed is monitored.

Sometimes there were signs warning me such “observation” was possibly taking place and sometimes I did notice actual “observers”.  Though monitoring speed might have occurred, rarely did I see any evidence of detection—as in “I pulled you over because I detected you violating the speed limit.”  Most of the officers in those cars seemed preoccupied with such things as books, sandwiches or phones — distracted for sure, but the vehicle was not moving

Oh, sure, there were many times when I spotted police vehicles actually “monitoring” traffic.  Usually they were strategically parked in the median.  I say strategically, because I suspected the ploy was to be intimidating rather than enforcing.  There were far more instances of patrol cars clearly evident, rather than the “hiding in the weeds” speed trap.

Part of my intimidation-not-enforcement supposition is founded on my van being slower than most other vehicles, which were passing said stationed police presence, AND I WAS SPEEDING (excuse: to forego being a traffic hazard at the posted limit).  However, there were no pulled over cars in the vicinity. Thus, I concluded such intimidation tactics weren’t worth the price of idling engines.

Of course, signs are not particularly intimidating either.

Aircraft are monitory your speed in this area.  …After dark?

Without a doubt, such aircraft can detect my speed, but what are they going to do, drop a “paint ball bomb” to tag my car?  Even in broad daylight…regardless of whatever delineates “broad” about certain daylight conditions…I have witnessed overhead aircraft AND excessive speeding in the area, but no violator ever pulled over.  I’d be willing to bet, no speed-policing-by-air has produced fines sufficient to pay for the warning signs much less the fuel to keep the plane aloft.

I do have a friend who once piloted a police chopper and he admitted there was no clear protocol of how he was to stop a speeder.  He supposed it was NOT to spear the tail pipe with the chopper’s landing rails. I suggested maybe that hovering low, in front of a speeding vehicle, would get the point across rather vividly.  He suggested I had watched way too many 007 movies.  He feared that if he was to try this tactic, he’d likely hover backwards into the rear of a semi.

In Georgia, I recall seeing a sign I’ve not witnessed elsewhere.  SPEED CHECKED BY DETECTING DEVICES     Wow!  Does that mean there are methods other than devices.  Emergency rooms are full of humans who were woefully inept at judging the speed of something  thrown at them.  Does that mean they are no longer utilizing overhead geese?

Detecting Devices?  Really?   Considering as much road kill as I’ve seen, I’d suggest that animals are not particularly adept at speed checking.  So what is left but devices?   I imagine the wording of the sign is to replace “radar” and now include checking my speed by satellite.  After all, my GPS reports my speed in red when my vehicle exceeds the local limit.  I can only wonder when a law will be enacted to allow my GPS to “DETECT AND REPORT” my vehicle to local authorities whenever it surpasses the speed limit.  You will clearly notice the use of “my vehicle” rather than infer that “I” might ever be guilty.

Nevertheless, until the time such a law is passed, the signs and strategically place police cars are hardly intimidating. Until motorists actually witness hordes of violators being pulled over, intimidation will continue to be ineffective.  Whenever my mom waved her hand as a SIGN of potential punishment for my misbehaving, I knew full well I had been detected. Trust me…violators were prosecuted.  That’s truly how intimidation works.